Have you just moved to Kochi, Trivandrum or another city in Kerala, for work or studies? Maybe you've married into a Malayali family and want to talk to your partner's family? Or maybe you were born abroad to Malayali parents and want to reconnect with your roots? Whatever brings you here, you're starting an exciting journey. Malayalam can seem daunting to learn, especially with its looping script and a few sounds that English doesn't have. But fear not, I'm here to make your life easier with tips to pick up Malayalam based on Bhashafy's Malayalam Learning Curriculum.
Firstly, by being here on this blog you've already shown your intention to pick up Malayalam and that is the first big step towards your eventual fluency. It will connect you with the heritage and history of this vibrant language, and with the people you care about. And if you're living in Kerala, it will make your experience not only more convenient but also so much more meaningful and interesting!
You don't need to master Malayalam grammar straight away
I have seen so many people give up on Malayalam before they even start, because traditional teaching methods get you too bogged down with the intricacies of the grammar and the script. However the reality is that with the right guidance, Malayalam is much easier than you may think. And I'm here to prove that to you.
And if you speak any other Indian language, North or South, you already have a huge head start in learning Malayalam! The sentence structure is the same as most Indian languages, Malayalam borrows some Sanskrit words just like Hindi and many other languages do, and the alphabet's structure is the same even though the symbols are different (ka, kha, ga, gha, etc., for consonants and vowel signs called matras for vowels). If you speak Tamil, you have an even bigger head start, because Tamil is Malayalam's closest relative. So don't believe anyone who says that Malayalam is too difficult to learn.
Understand how Malayalam is different from your native language
There are some major differences as well as similarities between Malayalam and other languages like Hindi and English. It is good to know which parts of the language you can use your native language's logic directly, and where you have to learn the logic of the new grammar.
Let's go through the four main ways in which Malayalam is similar to and different from other languages.
1) Malayalam puts the verb at the end of the sentence
In Malayalam, the verb always comes at the end of the sentence. All major Indian languages follow this same Subject-Object-Verb (SOV) word order as Malayalam, whereas English follows Subject-Verb-Object (SVO). I'll explain in simple terms.
- English: I will do yoga (S-V-O). Subject is "I", verb is "will do", object is "yoga".
- Malayalam: Njān yōga cheyyum (S-O-V). Subject is "Njān" (I), object is "yōga", verb is "cheyyum" (will do).
- Hindi: Main yoga karoonga (S-O-V). Subject is "Main" (I), object is "yoga", verb is "karoonga" (will do).
Observe how the Malayalam and Hindi sentences line up perfectly. Both end with the verb, whereas in English the verb "do" comes in the middle of the sentence.
If you already know another Indian language, you can save the mental process of rearranging the sentence in Malayalam. The words will fall in the exact same order as in your native language.
If you're learning through English, you need to adjust your word order. Just remember that the verb always comes at the end of the phrase or sentence in Malayalam.
2) Malayalam uses suffixes to build meaning
Another massive difference you'll encounter is the central role of suffixes in Malayalam.
Malayalam is what linguists call an agglutinative language. In simple terms, it relies heavily on attaching various endings to words to change their meaning, often stacking them together in a single sequence.
This logic differs from English or Hindi and frequently produces impressively long words. Many times just one word in Malayalam expresses what would otherwise need a whole English phrase. The good news is that these suffixes follow a very logical pattern that is easy to predict.
To give you an example, the root verb for "do" is cheyy-.
- Cheyyū: Please do (the -ū ending makes a polite request)
- Cheyyum: Will do (the -um ending shows the future)
- Cheyyumō?: Will you do it? (the -ō ending turns it into a question)
- Cheyyaruthu: Don't do (the -aruthu ending is "don't")
- Cheyyaruthē: Please don't do (the -ē ending softens it)
Notice the logic here? These suffixes stack together like building blocks to expand the meaning of your original verb!
And here is some good news: Malayalam verbs do not change depending on who is doing the action. "I go", "you go", "he goes" and "they go" all use the same verb form. You only change the verb for the time (present, past, future). That is a huge relief compared to Hindi or other Indian languages, where the verb also changes for gender and person.
3) Malayalam formality: know who you're talking to
Malayalam has built-in levels of respect, so the words you use for "you" and for "he" and "she" depend on who you're talking to.
"You" has two main forms. The respectful ningaḷ is for elders, strangers, in-laws and anyone you want to show respect to. The informal nī is for close friends, family members your age and anyone younger than you.
- Ningaḷ evide pōkunnu?: Where are you going? (respectful)
- Nī evide pōkunnu?: Where are you going? (informal)
If you're ever unsure, go with ningaḷ. Nobody minds you being a little too respectful, but using nī with an elder can come across as rude.
"He" and "she" also have levels. When you're talking about someone else, you pick from these:
- Avan (he) / Aval (she): Informal, for friends, relatives your age and people younger than you.
- Avar: Respectful "he" or "she" for elders and people you look up to. It also means "they".
- Addheham (he): Very formal, mostly heard in news, speeches and formal writing.
Here's the lovely part. The verb stays the same for all of them:
- Avan varum: He will come (informal)
- Avar varum: He or she will come (respectful)
- Addheham varum: He will come (very formal)
So before you speak, it helps to ask yourself one quick question: who am I talking to, and who am I talking about? You'll also hear people add "chettan" (elder brother) or "chechi" (elder sister) after a name as a mark of warmth and respect, like "Rajan chettan" or "Latha chechi".
4) Malayalam script: to read or not to read?
The Malayalam script is an abugida with around 50 or more letters, and it is famously round and curvy. Each letter maps closely to a specific sound, which makes it a highly phonetic system. Unlike English, words are written as they sound. If you already know Devanagari or any other Indian script, the logic of the alphabet is exactly the same, just the shapes are different. We have vowels, consonants and vowel signs (matras) that attach to consonants. Malayalam also has a few special letters of its own, like the unique "zh" sound that you'll hear in the word for rain, mazha.
Now, the big question for a new learner is whether to start by learning to read the script. I highly recommend getting comfortable with the spoken language first, before doubling the complexity with the script. Learning the script is a project unto itself, which I believe should be Step 2 for a beginner, after making progress on Step 1, which is picking up some amount of spoken Malayalam.
Accelerate your Malayalam progress!
Now, I think you are ready to begin your Malayalam language learning journey. To support your progress, you can find helpful resources to learn Malayalam here: Bhashafy's Complete Malayalam Course for Beginners.
So varū (please come in Malayalam), join me in the Bhashafy Malayalam course, where we dive into the essential building blocks of the language in a simplified and structured manner that you will be hard pressed to find anywhere else!
Thank you, or as we say in Malayalam - Nandi!





